Thursday, September 20, 2012

Trusting beyond the good times..

Last night, I had the opportunity to chat it up with 2 of my favorite high school senior girls.  During our Amplify small group time we discussed some comical things but also some serious, anything-but-comical things… one of our discussion questions was this:How does it make you feel knowing that everything in the world, even the bad things, are under Christ’s power?based on Colossians 1:15-18.  All 3 of our answers varied as I’m sure was the case in several small groups… it’s hard to understand that even the hard things/the bad things are under His control.  For me, this is where trust trumps understanding. 

Trust is defined @ dictionary.com as: confident expectation of something; hope.  Being honest with myself and with you, I’d have to admit that I haven’t always been able to say I trust God with the hard stuff… I felt as though I had to maintain an intense grip on the hard stuff so I could assure myself the least amount of pain.  BUT, as we stubborn people learn, we are not capable of such assurance and cannot govern our own lives without falling flat on our faces from time to time.  :/  I was once a pro at ‘mask-wearing’ and ‘wall-building’.  I could act like everything was ok outwardly, while battling a constant misery inside – feeling completely out of control in the midst of my striving to ‘keep control’.  When I honestly admitted to God that I had trust issues, even with Him, I slowly released my grip and invited Him to govern where He already was, sure He was tempted to say, 'what took you so long?'.  :)  Anyway, I found (and am still finding) that it’s only in giving my expectations, my desires, my fears, my heartaches, my 'lack-of-control-even-when-I-want-to-control' self to God that He provides extra strength that I need to make it through these hard and even ‘bad’ times. 

I am currently surrounded by people and circumstances where hurting is very real!  You are, too, more than likely.  So, do I believe that God is a cruel God because He isn’t just “fixing” these things?  No, not at all... I believe, I choose to trust that even though I beg and plead with him on behalf of my own family and so many others that HE IS working the best plan whether I am ever able to see it or not.  And that trust is something I have to renew daily (sometimes hourly) by feeding on His promises.  
See, sometimes God changes circumstances, but sometimes He doesn’t.  A lot of times in my own life, I seem to hear him say that He WON’T remove said situations or circumstances, but that He WILL be with me and WILL give me the stamina I need to get through them.  He gives me more strength than I ever thought possible when I am relying on His unending supply.  I may never fully understand Paul's words about God’s power being “made perfect in my weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9) but I believe it because I can testify to this very thing.  When I feel like I cannot go one more step, His power moves my weakness to the next spot.  And then before I know it, one more hard thing is behind me.  

My call to surrender continually confronts my desire to control.  I suppose it always will but I am grateful that my God loves me right back to His better way every time! 

This week, I found a random piece of journal paper where I had copied this a few of years ago…
“There are times when, even as Christians, we make plans without God. Sometimes it’s to distract us from pain and sometimes we just stubbornly choose to go our own way. But whether our decisions are large or small, our Heavenly Father should lead us every step of the way. Our confidence should always be placed in the Lord instead of our own plans.
 Psalm 62:5-8 says, ‘Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will not be shaken. My salvation and my honor depend on God; he is my mighty rock, my refuge. Trust in him at all times, people; pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge.”

Maybe you’re tempted as I am (still) to put your hope in people, health, rest, status or the ‘perfect’ job, finances or peaceful circumstances but today, I would challenge us both to put our hope in the ONE that will not disappoint… the ONE who promises rest and life to the fullest…the ONE who knows best what we need, even in the hard/bad times. 

 “Look around you and be distressed,
look within you and be depressed.
Look to Jesus, and be at rest.”
- Corrie ten Boom

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